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- Wedding invite wording sets the tone for your celebration and helps guests understand what to expect, from the formality to the dress code.<\/li>\n
- The best wedding invitations balance clear wording with a tone that reflects your relationship and wedding style.<\/li>\n
- Different weddings call for different wording, whether you\u2019re planning a formal, traditional ceremony or a casual, modern celebration.<\/li>\n
- Thoughtful wording can help avoid common mistakes around missing RSVP deadlines, plus-one information, reception details and dress code.<\/li>\n
- Pairing the right wording with the right design, layout and invitation suite makes your message clearer.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Line-by-line wording of a wedding invitation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
A wedding invitation has a few jobs. The most important is to give guests all the details they need to prepare for your wedding, like the time, location and dress code. It also includes other information that could factor into whether a recipient attends, like whether plus ones or children are invited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wedding invitation wording and design can vary massively, but invites mostly include the same information. Take a look at these two wedding invite wording examples, one formal and the other more casual:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/div>\n \n \nSource: Wedding invitation design by CLCreative via 99 designs by Vista<\/em><\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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<\/div>\n \n \nSource: Wedding invitation design by T o n k a via 99designs by Vista<\/em><\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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In general, formal weddings tend to use traditional phrasing, script fonts and full sentences, while casual weddings, like a barefoot ceremony on a beach or an evening in a renovated factory, allow for more relaxed language, contractions and personality. The key is making sure your wording matches the experience you\u2019re inviting guests to.<\/p>\n\n\n
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No matter what wedding style or level of formality you choose, we\u2019ll break down each element of a wedding invitation, explaining what to include and how your wording can subtly shift the tone. As you brainstorm your wording, think about how you\u2019ll present the following information:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Couple\u2019s names<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
You and your partners\u2019 names are the most stand-out information on the invitation. To draw the recipient\u2019s eye first, the names should be the largest or brightest words on the page. More formal wedding invitations tend to include first, middle and surnames, and names can be listed in alphabetical order or any order that feels right.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Hosts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Traditionally, the couple\u2019s parents host the wedding, rather than the couple themselves. So if you or your partner\u2019s parents (or both) are paying for most or all of the wedding, you may want to include their names in the invitation as hosts. Of course, this can be omitted for more modern weddings where the couple is hosting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nIf either set of parents are divorced, list them separately on your invitation. For example, \u201cCatherine Hidalgo and Robert Scalia request the honor of your presence at the wedding of their daughter, Sarah Scalia.\u201d If multiple people are hosting, list their names on separate lines to avoid confusion.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Date<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The date is arguably the most important piece of information on the wedding invitation, so include it even if you\u2019ve already sent out save-the-dates<\/a>. You can choose to present the wedding date in numerical or word form, depending on how formal the tone of your wedding will be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nHaven\u2019t sent out your save-the-date cards yet? Read our guide on save-the-date wording<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Time<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
After the date, include the time that the wedding proceedings will kick off. You can keep this simple and list the time numerically, like 2:00pm, 5pm or 3 o\u2019clock in the afternoon, as is used in more casual wedding invite wording. If guests should arrive earlier, note this clearly to avoid late arrivals.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nA modern wedding invitation template with a simple design and casual wording<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alternatively, the time is sometimes spelled out on more formal wedding invitations:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- At three o\u2019clock in the afternoon<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- At six o\u2019clock in the evening<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Location<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Another key piece of information to include is where the ceremony and reception will be held. Here are a few wording examples: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- At the Sunrise Resort in Palm Springs, CA<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- St. Mary\u2019s Episcopal Church, Bethlehem, PA<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- At our home [include address]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
If the reception will be at another venue, make sure to mention this below or in an enclosure card. List all venues so guests can look them up. Knowing where to go is part of preparing to attend a wedding. For destination weddings, add the city and country to avoid any ambiguity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Address and map<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Include the venue\u2019s address, and potentially even a map of how to get there on the back of the invitation or on a details card.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Website<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Point guests in the direction of your wedding website<\/a> by including the URL on the invitation. Here, they can find all of the information they need for the big day, as well as browse your registry, select meal options and RSVP.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nInclude a QR code<\/a> that directs guests to your wedding website. QR codes are especially helpful for digital RSVPs and multi-day or destination weddings.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Reception to follow<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
A quick note along the lines of \u201creception to follow\u201d lets guests know to plan for festivities after the ceremony. Here are a few ways to phrase this: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Reception to follow<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Please join us for a cocktail reception afterward<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Dinner and dancing to follow<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
If the reception is at a separate venue, include the name and address here or on an enclosure card. An enclosure card<\/a> is an additional piece of communication that\u2019s sent alongside a wedding invitation and can include directions to the venue, and dress code, accommodation and RSVP information or guidelines for guests to follow at the venue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
RSVP<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The invite should also let guests know how to RSVP, including instructions and the date to respond by. You can use a QR code to direct guests to the wedding website or an email address to send RSVPs to. RSVP details are often included on a separate RSVP card to keep the main invitation design uncluttered.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Dress code<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
You may include a brief description of your wedding\u2019s dress code, such as:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Black tie optional<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Cocktail attire requested<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Dress casual<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Creative black tie suggested<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Please dress to impress! Semi-formal attire requested.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- We\u2019ll be on a beach, so please dress for the occasion!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
If you aren\u2019t sure how to describe the dress code you\u2019d like, researching and using established terminology helps guests look up specific dress codes to avoid confusion and wardrobe mishaps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gifts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Give guests directions regarding wedding gifts, such as a QR code to your registry or a note about where you are registered. You can also request that guests abstain from giving gifts or direct them to a favored charity as an alternative, by using the following wording:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- In lieu of gifts, we request that guests make a donation to the local food bank<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- No gifts, please; your presence is more than enough for us<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nGift information is often placed on a details card or wedding website rather than the main invitation.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Parking instructions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
On the invitation or enclosure card, include parking instructions for guests, whether you\u2019re providing a shuttle from the accommodation to the venue or if there will be valet parking at the venue. Making this information clear can reduce stress on the day and help events start on time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Plus ones<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
A wedding invitation includes important information about who is invited. Clear wedding invite wording eliminates any confusion about whether the invitation recipient may bring a plus one and\/or their children. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nWhen you invite a married guest or a guest in a serious relationship, invite them as a couple, not an individual and a plus one. Plus ones are reserved for guests who are single or newly dating a partner.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Include plus one information with the invitation, either on the enclosure card or the RSVP section of your wedding website. Guests can RSVP for themselves and their plus one if they have one.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Kids<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The wedding invite wording should also mention whether children are welcome at the ceremony and reception. Choose wording that feels kind and clear. Polite phrasing helps avoid awkward conversations later. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here are a few examples of appropriate wording regarding children, with varying formality levels:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Please note, this will be an adults-only celebration.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Parents need a break sometimes, so come ready to enjoy an adults-only celebration.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Children are welcome! We can\u2019t wait to celebrate with your whole family!<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- The couple kindly requests an adults-only celebration.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- We respectfully request no children under 16.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Requests<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
State your request in polite, straightforward language that matches your chosen formality level. Here are examples of casual and formal phrasing for a common request:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Let\u2019s all be present together! Please leave your phone in your bag during the ceremony<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- The couple requests that no phones be used during the ceremony<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
A quote <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Wedding invitation and save-the-date quotes can also be meaningful additions. You might choose to use a quote to grab the recipient\u2019s attention at the top of the page or to wrap the invitation up nicely in the final line. The quote can be romantic, funny, inspirational or taken from a favorite song, poem or book. Keep quotes short so they complement the invitation rather than overwhelm it.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Wedding invite wording examples by wedding style<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Once you\u2019ve decided what information to include, the next step is choosing wording that reflects the style and tone of your wedding. Subtle wording choices can signal the level of formality, your personality and what guests should expect from the day. Small wording changes can noticeably shift the mood of an invitation. Compare the difference below:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Formal: <\/strong>\u201cMr. and Mrs. Jonathan Miller request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter, Emily Rose Miller to Daniel Thomas Wright.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Casual: <\/strong>\u201cJoin us for the wedding of Emma and Jack!\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Both versions have the same purpose, but the first feels traditional and formal, while the second feels relaxed, celebratory and personal. Subtle wording choices like these help set expectations before guests even arrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Formal wedding invitation wording<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Formal wedding invite wording can be the easiest option as it\u2019s the most prescriptive tone to take for a wedding invitation. Avoid contractions and unnecessary words in a formal wedding invitation by sticking to traditional wording and formatting. Formal wording is well-suited to traditional venues, religious ceremonies and black-tie events.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Example:
Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Miller
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Emily Rose Miller
to
Daniel Thomas Wright
Saturday, the twenty-first of June
two thousand twenty-six
at half-past four in the afternoon
St. Andrew\u2019s Church, Greenwich Village, New York City<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nFormal wedding invite template with the hosts’ names included<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Casual wedding invite wording<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Casual wedding invite wording works best when the language reflects how you naturally communicate, while still clearly sharing essential details. This style is especially popular for outdoor, intimate or non-traditional celebrations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Example:
Emma and Jack
are getting married!
Join us for a relaxed celebration
Saturday, June 21, 2026
4:30 pm
The Riverside Gardens, Boston
Drinks and dancing to follow<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nSource: Wedding invite design by Creeventer via 99designs by Vista<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Modern or minimalist wedding invite wording<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Modern wedding invitations often use short lines, simple language and pared-back phrasing. This style pairs well with clean layouts and contemporary typography, as well as creative DIY wedding invitations<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Example:
Emma Carter & Jack Lewis
invite you to celebrate their wedding
June 21, 2026<\/p>\n\n\n\nAt 6pm
The Old Dairy, Boston
Reception to follow<\/p>\n\n\n\nDestination wedding invitation wording<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Destination wedding wording should clearly communicate travel expectations and direct guests to additional details online. Keep the invitation design clean and uncluttered and use a wedding website for logistics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Example:
Together with their families,
Emma and Jack
invite you to join them in celebration
June 21, 2026
Lake Como, Italy
Please visit our wedding website for travel and accommodation details<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n
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Small and intimate wedding invite wording<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
For small, intimate weddings, wording can feel warm and personal while still remaining clear and respectful. This approach works well for limited guest lists or private ceremonies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Example:
With great joy,
Emma and Jack
invite you to share a very special day
as they celebrate their marriage
June 21, 2026
At our home
Reception to follow<\/p>\n\n\n\nSame-sex and inclusive wedding invite wording<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Inclusive wedding invite wording focuses on the celebration itself rather than traditional gender roles or assumptions. Names can be listed in any order that feels right to the couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Example:
Join us <\/p>\n\n\n\nto celebrate the marriage of
Emma Carter and Sophie Nguyen
Saturday, June 21, 2026
Chicago City Hall, Randolph Street, IL 60602<\/p>\n\n\n\nCommon wedding invite wording mistakes, and how to avoid them<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Even beautifully designed invitations can cause confusion if the wording isn\u2019t clear. These are some of the most common wedding invite wording mistakes couples make and how to fix them before invitations go to print.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Being unclear about who is invited<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
One of the most common issues is vague guest wording, especially around plus-ones and children. Avoid relying on assumptions and make guest limits clear with names on the envelope and RSVP cards and forms that only allow responses for invited guests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Forgetting to include RSVP deadlines or methods<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Missing or unclear RSVP details can delay responses and complicate your planning. Always include a clear RSVP deadline and explain exactly how guests should respond, whether by mail, email or via your wedding website. Digital RSVPs and QR codes make it easier for guests to respond on time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Omitting reception details<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
If guests are invited to both the ceremony and reception, say so explicitly. If the reception is at a different venue or starts later, that information should be impossible to miss. Use an enclosure or details card if space on the main invitation is limited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Using wording that doesn\u2019t match the formality of the event<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Overly formal wording for a relaxed celebration or casual wedding invite wording for a black-tie event can set the wrong expectations. Your wedding invite wording should reflect the experience guests will have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nRead your invitation aloud and ask whether it sounds like the wedding you\u2019re hosting.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Not specifying adults-only celebrations clearly or kindly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Guests appreciate clarity, but tone matters too. Polite, respectful wording helps avoid awkward conversations. Clarify whether your wedding is adults only on the invitation, RSVP card or wedding website.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Overcrowding the invitation with too much information<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Trying to fit every detail onto the main invitation can overwhelm guests and clutter the design. A complete wedding invitation suite<\/a> with a save-the-date card, main invite, RSVP card, details or enclosure card and wedding shower card (if you\u2019re having one) keep the design of each piece of stationery clean and focused.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Match the wording to your wedding invitation design<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
An invitation\u2019s second-most important job is to set the tone for the wedding. Typically, a wedding invitation incorporates design elements that communicate the couple\u2019s chosen wedding aesthetic, like a monochrome invitation with a serif font for a sophisticated, minimalist wedding or a light-colored invite with botanical imagery for a relaxed wedding in natural surroundings.<\/p>\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nSource: Nautical-themed wedding invitation design by Motiff Media\u00ae via 99designs by Vista.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Determining your theme and formality level for the wedding ceremony and reception are decisions you\u2019ll make early on in the planning process. These decisions, such as whether your wedding will be a formal banquet hall dinner or a casual rooftop party, inevitably inform your wedding invitation design and wording. When wording and design are aligned, your guests immediately understand what kind of celebration they\u2019re being invited to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \n\n\n Tip <\/div>\n\nReady to design your wedding invites? Read our ultimate guide to wedding invitation design<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n
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Thinking about your invitation like a brand message can be helpful. Design choices like color palette, font, imagery and visual hierarchy communicate your values and the atmosphere you aim to create at your wedding. And just as luxury brands use more formal language and modern brands lean more conversational, your wedding invite wording should reflect the experience you\u2019re creating. Ask yourself: What should guests feel when they open the envelope?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Guests will also encounter your wedding branding in your other communications, at pre-wedding parties and through day-of decorations, signage and cocktail napkins. Keeping wording and design consistent across your invitation suite, wedding website and day-of elements helps create a polished, cohesive experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How wording affects layout and your invitation suite<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Your wedding invitation wording affects how your invitation is laid out, as well as its tone. Formal wedding invite wording often pairs well with centered layouts, clear visual hierarchy, script fonts and generous white space, while casual wording works nicely with playful layouts, asymmetry or modern typography.<\/p>\n\n\n
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Many couples print a full invitation suite rather than fitting everything onto one card. This typically includes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- A save-the-date card so guests can reserve the day in advance<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- The main invitation with ceremony details<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- An RSVP card with response options<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A details or enclosure card for logistics like reception, dress code, parking or accommodation info<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A thank-you card<\/a> to be sent out after the wedding to thank guests for celebrating with you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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Including a link to a wedding website or QR code allows you to keep the main invitation uncluttered while still sharing all the information that guests need to know. These elements are often placed at the bottom of the invitation or on a separate details card to maintain a clean design.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wedding invitation timing and logistics<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s everything you need to know about wedding invitation timing and logistics to make sure guests have everything they need with plenty of time to prepare.<\/p>\n\n\n
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When to send wedding invitations<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Wedding invitations are typically sent six to eight weeks before the wedding, but this time frame can vary depending on the length of the engagement, with more lead time recommended for destination weddings and peak-season celebrations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How to handle RSVP deadlines and responses<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
RSVP deadlines are typically set a few weeks before the wedding to allow time for final planning. At this stage, the key consideration is clarity, as guests should immediately understand how and by when to respond. Send out RSVP cards<\/a> or digital RSVPs via a QR code or wedding website to help simplify responses and reduce the need for follow-ups.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How to coordinate destination or multi-day weddings<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
For destination or multi-day weddings, use your invitation to introduce the main event and direct guests elsewhere, like a wedding website or a detailed printed itinerary, for extended travel and schedule details. This keeps your wedding invite clean while still setting clear expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Designing your wedding invitation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Think about the overall vibe you want your wedding invitations to have. For example, you might want a traditional-looking invitation with serif fonts and lots of white and formal language. If you\u2019re leaning toward a boho vibe, the invite might incorporate colorful illustrations, modern fonts and conversational language. Your wedding invite wording should feel like a natural extension of these visual choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- Casual: <\/strong>\u201cJoin us for the wedding of Emma and Jack!\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
- Formal: <\/strong>\u201cMr. and Mrs. Jonathan Miller request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter, Emily Rose Miller to Daniel Thomas Wright.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n